
There’s a lot of talk lately in marketing circles about a person’s “why.” It’s about excavating a value statement – mainly to one’s self – for the work, sweat-equity, and energy we offer out in the world.
I’ve been meaning to get to this exercise – It was a part of my herbal course, they provided a worksheet meant to guide an exploration of one’s personal why. Why be a herbalist? Why create herbal remedies? For me, why garden, why plant seeds, why make formulas?
To connect. To heal.
I recently heard Jon Kabat Zinn say that his working definition of healing is acceptance of things as they are. I pondered. This is complicated. Sometimes we can heal by deciding to make things better: to take better care of ourselves, to find the ways and remedies that will bring healing. But, I suppose, we have to accept where we are first in order to do that. So his definition stands. At least from that perspective.

Lemon balm (above) is a nervine. It’s not as powerful, in my experience, as chamomile, but it has a very lovely calming effect and I know people that drink it as a evening tisane. Lemon balm, peppermint, chive, echinacea, oregano, sage, raspberry and violet seem to have followed me everywhere I’ve gone. I’ve dragged other friends – rosemary, thyme, basil, parsley, tulsi, borage, calendula, chamomile, lavender, hyssop, feverfew, savory, and a host of others with me, and I’m making friends with some other quiet classmates that I haven’t connected with before. Like Dandelion, plantain, and nettle. And there is a whole new class I’m joining of friends like motherwort, all heal, elecampagne, and others…
My why is us. Us and the plants. And our other sentient friends, the animals. Wild and companion. And bringing us together.









